I've thought this entire subject over and over in my mind...burned a few brain calories in the process. I have decided that antifreeze is not going to happen because of the cost and that the antifreeze has to be changed out/refreshed every 2-3 years...depending I'm sure on something. Instead, we're going to go with a whole house Generac generator.
The initial cost for the whole house generator will be a bit more than the antifreeze, but I will have that peace of mind knowing that "IF" we go away somewhere in the winter and the power goes out..within seconds the aux power will come on. And a friend of mine says he' would stop over after work and check that the pump is in fact working. IF the pump were to quit, and the generator is running, the heat from the house furnace will keep the pipes warm.
So now we just have to get through this winter without any sub-zero temps...I told my wife, that if for some reason we "had" to leave for a weekend this winter, if I know somewhat in advance that we're going in the deep freeze...hell I'll just drain the entire system.
Thanks again for everyone's input.
Lugnut