firebug,I initially had a lot of problems with my Shaver keeping up as well.I found a lot of my problem initially was the wood i was using.Add to the the shavers lack of a good tstat and blower shut down. I got all that fixed,and its much better now.I went with a Shaver 250 which is almost as big as a NC 250,they are very close in size,and i have about 3000 sq ft home,every well insulated,I was going to get the 165 which is about the size of your NC175,and im so glad i upsized.If i had it to do over,id went one more bigger it was only $250 more ,it held another 30 gallons of water.Has a 58"long firebox opposed to my 50".Ive learned to not beleive any of the MFG specs as far as BTUS and what it will heat,the only one who pust accurate info,IMO is central boiler,they error on theside of too big,I think thats one of the reasons why you see so many happy owners of CB,they pay more,but are satisifed.When I called Shaver they told me a 165 (165 gallons of water) would easily heat my home,and its poorly insulated,and small. The cost about 5200 deilvered,it sounds enticing,next to the central boiler dealer who said i needed a 6048 ,holds 393 gallons of water ,huge firebox,9000+ dollars.You know what if id went with the central boiler I'd be enjoying 24Hr burn times,and the ability to fit real big wood thru the door.
One thing I wanted to ask you was how many degrees of temp are you losing between the house,and OWB,how long is your run,and what kind of PEX did you use,and what is it enclosed in.If you cant get the NC working to your satisfaction, Im sure a CB 5036 would make you happy.