There are two terminal strips in the aquastat. One is just to power it. The other is the relay. The wiring I mentioned was just for the relay side. For the power, just run from the incoming hot and neutral wires shown on the left side of the schematic.
The T wires are the low voltage thermostat connection. What I suggested would turn on the fan and short the T T connections at the same time. When those connections are shorted together, the oil burner will fire. The aquastat would keep them from shorting when the OWB is hot.
With it wired this way, you won't have the delay from when the oil burner fires till when the blower starts. That is because the hot air in the plenum was what turned on the blower.
Also, you will probably have to turn the temp up on the fan control if the heat of the heat exchanger causes the blower to start up. You could probably bypass it with the wiring but it is kind of a safety and should probably be left operational if possible.