Z supply is where I get my plates and prices are great even on retail but it's a dealer only company.
There are some out there that aren't real good or are to restrictive.
Based on the size of your home I would probably go with a 60 plate heat exchanger on that and a 80-100 on the barn, that open space up and above more than doubles the actual square footage. Sooo it's gonna require a lot. You may be able to heat the home with let's say a 40-50, but I like them a but on the large side for flow as well.
As far as shop heaters for the forced air part, once again those are all over the board, Ive sold the same brand for years and for example they start at a 50kbtu unit and they retail for around $329. They go on up from there depending on the size you may need
Just shop around, there are inferior products out there in regards to this stuff, avoiding it is a must.