Scott, I agree with you. I recently found myself in the position of "what to do?" I really like the way ghitch set his up and I had been thinking that I would do about the same, usuing a pump and aquastat for the most consistent temp. The almight dollar won the fight and I ended up just plumbing it in to the incoming line, figuring I'd be keeping a close eye on it for a while. So far I can't be happier. I'm still a little uneasy about the high water temp flowing into the water tank. I installed an in-line thermometer. It does depend on water volume being drawn. For example at prolonged light volume usage the water temp flowing into the tank is around 160 to 170 and that would increase the tank temp. I do notice my water temp rise while in the shower and I have to adjust the cold. I'm used to this as it always happened mid-shower with oil burner as that always kicked on while showering (I could hear it) (oh, by the way, it's great NOT to hear it anymore
). When I fill my washing machine which is located right next to the water heater, the temp flowing through the HX drops to around 140+ which is still higher than what my original heater set point is. Boiler runs 185-190 with 009 pump pushing about 125' one way to 10 plate HX and then forced air HX. I have no complaints with this setup. 009 may not be real fast, but it is a workhorse and has been for 5 seasons now.
ghitch - If I were to install as you did, where do you position the temp probe from the aquastat?? That was my biggest question. My local true value plumbing guy (who I'd trust with just about anything) suggested cutting through the outer shell and using a strap-on type aquastat to try to get the truest tank reading. I figure if the probe is located somewhere in-line then the line would cool more quickly causing the pump to short-cycle often. Just my thought on it. I'm curious.
Jeff