Thanks for the comments, I think I will try insulating the pipes and see if that gets me there. Last night is got down to 15 degrees, I filled the boiler at 10:30 and at 6:30 still had two logs left so I am not that far off from what I need. One thing I did was, remove zone with the DHW. Manually turned it off to limit the flow of hot water to the stove.
For me Slim, the problem with looking at a 3 year avg, I froze to death keeping the house on 69 due to electric heat pump... then once I got the boiler, it felt so good so I keep it 75 now. And then comes the idea, its just wood, I will cut more so now the Great Danes have a 65 degree garage to sleep in. That's why I did the calculations, which I included everything I wanted to do. I think the this size boiler will work, may after insulating a few pipes and making the complete system more efficient. Wednesday night will be the real test, it will get to 0 degrees here, and I used 10 degrees in my delta T calculations....