Thanks for all the info..
One thing I did do was if there was an overheat situation i let it go to the hot water tank first which is 80 gallons, it is normally set at 120 so i let it max out at 150, then it dumps into the house via the modine heater. I think one reason why the aspen uses the 75 gallons unit is to help keep the unit warmer by allowing the firebrick to absorb a bunch of heat to help in re ignition. I'm guessing on that one, but they are more sensitive than a non gasification unit. There have been times when my blower didn't come on for a long time, many hours and it didn't overheat. I also have never seen a problem with re ignition, even when the wood is all gone and there is a small pile of coals, I can load it up and the blower will ignite the wood. I think this is helped by the heat stored in the firebrick.
I value your opinion, it makes me think about all sorts of things that could be done. Being my first year with the unit i think i will get better at loading it and reducing any over heating situations. Looking back at some old posts it seems as this and re ignition problems have been talked about. I have read about someone dumping heat into a pool before.
In Maine you need a solid fuel license to install an OWB for someone and you need to be in the trades to get that. The problem is as with me, most heating guys know oil, not much guess work, but this OWB thing is so different that it really takes owning one and talking to other people who have them to get a good understanding as to best set them up. Not to mention unlike oil fired systems these OWB have only a few ranges in BTU output unlike an oil fired boiler you can match closely to a house. Then of course everyone is different. I want to beable to leave my house for days in the winter without fear of the thing freezing while my neighbor never leaves and keeps the fire burning every day of the winter.
Many variables. Good luck.