Hi.
In response to the cost issue, my boiler cost me $7,000 (out the door and delivered) while the install cost me about $2,000 (+/-) more (I did install myself). The parts for install add up fast.... $400 for water to air exchanger, $300 for water to water exchanger, hundred ft. of underground was $1000, $100 or so in pex, and what I didn't anticipate was the cost of all the fittings... every time I turned around I was buying another 10 or so brass fittings/valves at $10 a pop! Bet I had over $400 in just that department. Oh, and I almost forgot the $700 for the heat exchanger and blower unit for the pole barn!
Despite the initial cost, I couldn't be happier with the end result. House is warmer than it's ever been, endless hot water, and I keep the barn at 55 degrees all the time (70 when I'm out there)!
So glad I got the next size bigger stove than was recommended.... that was my best move. Cost was more, but I can honestly say that I can easily go 24+ hours on a single fill. Haven't had to fill in the morning yet.... I just rake the coals around before I chuck some wood in every evening and its good to go (helps with ash build up as well). Some may call me a liar, but I speak the truth. Keep in mind that my house is easy to heat and barn is well insulated, and that every one's heating situation is different causing results to vary.