trailmaster
I don't think your temps after 48' mean much of anything. We sometimes forget that ThermoPex lines are only separated by 1/4" of foam, and that there will be some transfer of temperature from one to the other. My OWB is 95' from my house, and using my thermometer, I too get about a 5* loss coming into my house. My two heat exchangers pull about 25* out of my water, but if I shoot my line going back to my boiler in my basement and then the same line at the boiler, it will actually pick up about 4*. In other words, my incoming water is heating up my return water.
My valving is such that if I close two valves and open one I can bypass the exchangers all together. My incoming line in my basement is then usually only 1*-2* lower than what it is at my boiler, and I'm OK with that. I think you received a lot of good advise regarding your flow(or lack thereof). With everything running, I wouldn't think you should see any more than 6*.