Another issue with smaller pipe is the maximum velocity you can flow the water at. Eventually the friction between the walls of the pipe and the fluid inside will cause enough turbulence that you're barely moving any fluid through the pipe. If you go with a larger pipe, you can flow the water faster and have higher return temperatures to your wood boiler.
After this heating system, I highly recommend replacing your PEX. It won't be cheap to go 450', but it'll save you from ruining pumps every couple of years and it'll give you much better heat transfer into the house.
Here's the calculation tables from Taco for selecting their circulators:
http://www.taco-hvac.com/uploads/FileLibrary/SelectingCirculators.pdfIt also explains water velocity and the various sizes of piping and how it affects the system. Very useful to read.
From what I've read so far, just the PEX alone will give you 42' of head. With fittings and such, you're looking at 60+ feet of head. The Taco 013 isn't meant for that. The upside is you can only flow 4.5 gpm through the 3/4" PEX, so at least you can use a higher head with whatever pump you end up using. Assuming the heat load for your house is only 100,000 BTU per hour, that means you'll have a 45 degree temperature difference between the water leaving the OWB and the water returning the OWB.
That's not good! 180 degrees - 45 degrees equals 135 degrees of water returning to your OWB. At that temperature, Oxygen in the water and causes corrosion and microbiological organisms grow causing all sorts of problems.
Good luck with heating this year without issues. You really need to upgrade your PEX next year. I'd recommend 1-1/4" for a 450' loop.