thank you all for your input ,It is invaluable to me , Im seeing that there are several different ways to achieve the same thing , each install is different and has different requirements
for the greenhouse I'm not as concerned with it running 24x7 as the heat will go into the greenhouse , its not per se wasted , it can heat up pretty good simply from the sun during the day so it may get a bit warm , another option that a fine gentleman Im'd me about was to also hook my pump to the 110 volt thermostat inside the greenhouse so the pump and fan come on together , as this is the only appliance on that line that seems like the best option , yes i will get cool air for about a minute and half but it wont be running 24x 7 and it will probably although minimal cut down on pump electricity usage 24 x 7 vs as needed
that brings me back to my house ex changer when i put it in in the next couple weeks , I plan on running a 20 plate plate and then to a 22x22 exchanger inside my duct work , my air handler is in the basement and i have 3 floors to contend with , when i built the house i went crazy and had 2x6 walls and blown in wall insulation for a r value of r23 , i guess the question is will it heat up to much from the natural convection or do i need to look at a way to separate the 2 and have one on demand , definitely puts a kink in the budget to have to run separate lines or install a zone valve , i wont be able to bring the pump inside on this one as it is higher elevation that the wood boiler unless i add a second pump inside the basement and wire it on demand , stealing a line from Scott , " this is making my head hurt "
thank you all again , as stated your input is invaluable to me