The TT terminals on the furnace are 24 volts but very low amperage, it will open and close the relay but will not give you enough amps for a zone damper,( you don't have any so you will be fine ) what I typically do is use an Argo relay, interupt the TT wires ( one wire ) by cutting it and puttig the two ends on the TT terminals on the relay, then bring the normally open terminal wire down to the blower power wire and piggyback it onto that wire ( typically there will be three of them, low med high ) your choice which one you use. As far as overheat, that is what the snap disk does, it will turn on the blower in any overheat situation rather the thermostat is calling for heat or not. I would then use an aquastat on the incoming wood boiler line to interupt the oil furnace burner motor (B-1) , that should be set at about 160, and should be wired to break on temp rise, this will effectivly turn off the oil burner any time the wood boiler water is above 160 degrees.