again i caution you taht your house and shed on those very cold nights may be drawing over 140,000 btu per hour and i read here your stove is estimated at 150,000. i think (only my assumption) that your stove may deliver that amount of heat for an hour,maybe 2. remember an oil or gas furnace can deliver its set rating continuously as the fuel never runs out but wood on the other hand burns down and give of less btu's as it does. this means you will be delivering less (likely less than you need) aprt way through a fill. if you are taxing your stove to the max then you will require to fill more often to keep enough fire in teh box to deliver those high btu.
it is still my belief your stove is too small
another thing i dont see clearly is if your floor is properly installed how does the water in the lines cool 50 degrees between cycles of the floor loop?
if you are introducing water into the floor at 100 degrees and you say it is leaving the floor 50 degrees cooler by the next time your floor loop cycles then your insulation under the slab sends of a red flag to me as that would be ground tempature?