OK, I would like to chime in, I've been working on painting the Magic Bus so I've been busy but Please allow me to make a few suggestions.
First, you definitely are having some flow issues, it could be circ size, air in the wood boiler loop, small pipe sizing, water not mixing in the boiler or a plugging heat exchanger but you definately have a flow issue!
I drew this up this AM to try and help. I think first I would start with removing the check valve on the wood boiler loop and putting your make up domestic water line in between 2 valves as pictured in the diagram, close the return line and add street pressure water to the loop backwards, this will help clear any debris from the heat exchanger as well as eliminating any air trapped in the supply line, after you are sure you have good flow back to the boiler and no air is trapped then open the return valve, close the supply and repeat adding street pressure to the return and eliminate the air there, open both supply and return, turn circ on and check flow again.
I realize that lots of you folks have in the past have had good luck with putting your heat exchangers in series but I think with the newer units that require high flow rates, you will need to adjust your way of thinking and start doing simple primary / secondary plumbing as well as using larger primary piping.
The plate exchangers will eventually plug up and in a series loop all components will starve for flow, in a primary secondary loop it will be easy to diagnose which component is plugging and clean it accordingly.
Ralph, I also think adding a second circ on the back of the boiler will help stabilize your water temp in the boiler but I would try these suggestions first. I would not add a pipe into the inside of your unit because it will again restrict the flow and you don't want to have that increased.