Ok.... I'll be honest with you and you can take my advice if you want. I do this for a living and know what's getting ready to happen.
You are on the verge of sending your boiler to an early death. Your return water temps would be so low that it would cause condensation to build up inside the firebox and run down into the ashes and send your unit to an early grave. Let me explain.... Any boiler going back a hundred years has a primary and secondary loop, that whole reason is to keep boiler water from coming back below 140. When your burning wood, you are releasing moisture, the moisture has to be carried out the stack, moisture will not gather on steel that's over 140. If you had 100 pounds of wood in your stove at 25% moisture, that's 25 pounds of water inside the firebox.
Now, I know your going to say but I'll just keep my stove higher than that, but what happens is where the returns come back and make contact with the firebox wall it creates cool spots for moisture to gather, run down the walls and into the ashes. Central boiler and empyre now require boiler protection systems like all other boilers, the rest of the Industry hasn't went that way yet.
Further explained, delta t. Let's say I install your unit, I know by pipe size, flow, coil size etc, that I can make sure your water is coming back well above 140. The thing is though, once I leave you may add a building, add on additional rooms to your home, then all of my calculations are gone out the window. You may very well still heating those spaces, but might be damaging your boiler at the same time.
Can it be done correctly? Yea, it will cost a bit more but will be cheaper in the long run. Using a close T system and having a pump for each water to air exchanger eliminates killing your flow. For example if your garage called for heat, it would also trigger the pump to come on and put heat into the coil, once satisfied, the water would go back to bypassing the coil and keeping your flow up. So you'd need a really good pump as your main one, and then some really small pumps for your close T set ups. This would help to eliminate your water always coming back to low, it still might at times, but it is a definite step in the right direction. It wouldn't be all that hard to do either, and wouldn't be a budget killer.
You've gotta keep the flow up, keep the water running fast and so on, please feel free to ask more questions