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You will be fine with your 3/4" taps as long as you combine several. Is this a gas or electric tank?
I use 2-3 3/4" bungs for the supply and an equal amount for return. You will make a header for S&R, you will increase the size as soon as possible. Now that you have two large S&R lines, put a tee on each. One side of the tee to boiler, other side to load (house).
What this does is divide the velocity between the combined 3/4" bungs, this will reduce or eliminate turbulence that might die stratify the tank.
Look at the Tarm, or varmobeneen storage tanks, they too are single fed lines, piped in reverse return if more than one tank is used. Don't forget, it's very easy to just weld on larger sized bungs exactly where you want them. For stuff I need AWS certified my guy is $69/2"bung plus bung cost. And he's done 4 for a hundy when I prepped it. I have two 120 gal and 1-75 gal waiting to be done now.
Gas water heater= top 2-3 bung to supply
Drain and gas valve for return.
Electric water heaters, benefit of side heater element bungs, anywhere from 1"-1.25" more than enough for 8 GPM flow without destrat.