There are 2 types of zone valves, first is the normally open which takes power to close the valve this is typically used for dumping heat in a power outage, second is the normally closed, this is the one folks use for heating zones, it takes power to open it, sounds to me like you have a normally closed zone valve that you leave locked open, it for whatever reason opened with a call for heat (under power) and it will lift the lock out and reset to the normally closed position if it gets powered open, in short you have the wrong zone valve for a dump zone!