Heck with all that stuff bypasses and stuff. I keep it simple, the only thing I do is splice into the cold supply line going into the tank, so I cut supply line, go into the plate, come back out of the plate right back to the line I just cut. There is no need for a mixing valve with this setup as the water simply doesn't spend enough time in the plate to become dangerous and the tank acts as a buffer. My water is always within 1-2 degrees. Not dangerously hot either, set up this way it's endless hot water. And in the summer the water is simply not preheated anymore, so no valves need to be bothered
Your plate ain't mounted with the ports facing down by any chance are they?