Sprinter, I think your math is a little off on Pex S&R - cause remember you can run Pex close to 8'/sec and not have to worry about erosion. With that being said, assuming 41GPM required in worst case scenario on coldest day;
2" Pex is capable of 52gpm @ 8'/sec (with head loss of about 11.5 feet/100')
1.5" Pex is capable of 30gpm @ 8'/sec (with head loss of about 15.4 feet/100') Would required 2 S&R
1.25" Pex is capable of 21gpm @ 8'/sec (with head loss of about 17.9 feet/100') Would required 2 S&R
1" Pex is capable of 14gpm @ 8'/sec (with head loss of about 22.5 feet/100') Would required 3 S&R
However sprinter I do agree all this is for naught, depending how the system is designed/zoned.
Also, if 40+ GPMs are required would recommend some, primary-secondary piping, so main loop has the least amount of restrictions
NOTE: If your system requires +400k btu/hr

what do you feed the beast (OWB), and how often!?!