I GOT IT I GOT IT, apparently my cooling relay was bad on the normally open side, so swapped it out with the one from the other furnace, hooked my wires going to the old relay into the new one on the normally closed side and the fan runs with electric heat, moved the wires onto the normally open side added 24V to the other terminals and bam!!!!! just the fan runs!!!!!! Now going to wire it up like its supposed to be instead of.... trial and error version!!